Mar 24 2012

Why Easter? A New Easter Devotional for Families

by Doug Wolter

I’m excited about Why Easter? a new resource that helps children understand and celebrate the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus.  Tedd Tripp, author of Shepherding a Child’s Heart, gives his endorsement:

Since most Evangelicals do not follow the church calendar, Easter often catches us unprepared.  Barbara Reaoch comes to our aid with a four-week series of devotions for parents and children that will increase our joy at Easter.  These devotionals are well-crafted, theologically sound, and doable.  They could be used year after year as a wonderful family tradition.

You can click here to download a sample of the first 3 lessons.


Jan 23 2012

12 Teachable Moments

by Doug Wolter
Jared Kennedy recently posted 12 teachable moments from yours truly, (#s 1-10), Pat Aldridge (#11), and Mark Driscoll (#12). I hope they encourage you in your parenting journey.
  1. When Your Kids Can’t Sleep
  2. When Your Kids Want Control
  3. When Your Kids Keep Whining
  4. When Your Kids Get Sick
  5. When Your Kids Scratch the Neighbor’s Car
  6. When Your Kids Disobey You (Again!)
  7. When Your Kids Have a Meltdown in Public
  8. When Your Kids Get Overly Emotional
  9. When Your Kids Ask About Death
  10. When Your Kids Ask About Earthquakes
  11. When You’re Stuck in the Basement
  12. When You’re Just There.

Nov 4 2011

7 Financial Principles for Kids

by Doug Wolter

Jared Kennedy gives some helpful financial principles and devotions to walk through with your kids. These devotions would be a great supplement to a church-wide series on stewardship.

  1. We are God’s stewards
  2. God made us for work
  3. A worker is worthy of his earnings
  4. We give freely because we’ve received freely from Jesus
  5. We prepare for the future by planning and saving
  6. How we spend our money shows what we treasure in our hearts
  7. The Bible encourages us to avoid debt

Nov 2 2011

Does an Unbelieving Child Disqualify an Elder?

by Doug Wolter

Justin Taylor does a great job answering this question here.


Oct 7 2011

New ESV GROW! Bible for Kids

by Doug Wolter

ESV Grow! BibleI just got a copy of the ESV GROW! Bible from a friend of mine. I love it!  It’s designed specifically for children ages 8-12. One of the coolest features is the “Cross Connections” boxes that are scattered throughout to help kids understand the centrality of the cross in all the Scriptures. Another feature called “4U” is great for explaining the text and how to apply it to a child’s life.   I can’t wait to read it with my 7 and 9 year old girls.


ESV Grow! Bible from Crossway on Vimeo.

Click on the Bible to the right to view the text.


Sep 30 2011

Simple Gospel Habits in the Home

by Doug Wolter

Here are two simple ways to pass on the gospel to your kids at an early age:

  1. Creating Prayer Cards for Your Kids
  2. Blessing Your Children at Bedtime

Using these simple tools helps us depend on God each day for grace that only he can give.


Sep 27 2011

Involve Your Kids in Ministry to Elderly

by Doug Wolter

Brian Croft gives a good reminder for pastors to take their children with them when they visit the elderly. He brings out three points:

  1. Never underestimate the impact of children in the lives of others.
  2. It is good for a child to learn to love, grieve, and let go.
  3. It will cause the young and old to see the value of the other.

Read the whole thing.


Sep 22 2011

SEEDS Wed. Night Ministry to Kids and Families

by Doug Wolter

It’s been a great month of SEEDS! LBC members, spread the word about this great ministry to children and families on Wed. nights at 6:15. And parents, come to Parent Chat on Oct. 5th as Pastor Tony speaks on the Foundations of Parenting.


Sep 14 2011

Can We Give Them Too Much Grace?

by Doug Wolter

John Bird with an interesting critique of Elyse Fitzpatrick’s new book on parenting, Give Them Grace:

If applying the gospel can be overdone, these authors do it proudly: “We’ve encouraged you to dazzle [your children] with the message of Christ’s love and welcome, and then when you think that surely they must be tiring of it, go back and drench them with it again.”

The only problem with this is that when we apply the gospel to every event in life, and especially when we use it to correct, children will tire of it. Not every moment needs to be a “teachable moment.” Do we need to bring up Jesus’ agony on the cross every time our child acts like a child?

The authors give an example of how we might apply the gospel to a child who pouts after losing a baseball game: “Yes, losing is difficult….Jesus Christ understands losing because he lost relationship with his father on the cross….He’s using this suffering in your life to make us both look up and see his love.”

Besides the superficial view of suffering in the above quote, this loose way of applying the gospel, especially when often repeated, takes the power out of the message and can weary the children. Something sadder than a child growing up never hearing the good news is a child who grows up hoping to never hear it again.

I’m curious.  What are your thoughts?  I encourage you to read Bird’s entire review of the book as he ends on this note:

Still, the most important things to be said about this book are that it leaves room for failure, emphasizes the superiority of the gospel over the law, and is primarily about imperfect parents glorifying a perfect God (rather than themselves or their children). These things put Give Them Grace above many other Christian parenting books.


Sep 9 2011

SEEDS Video

by Doug Wolter

The first few weeks of our SEEDS ministry has gone really well!  We’ve looked at the big story of Scripture, Creation, and now the Fall.  Thanks to each of you who serve in this ministry to children and families!  You are appreciated!