Feb 23 2011

Designed to Do Life Together?

by Doug Wolter

This video is at once weird and beautiful at the same time. No doubt the music pulls you in emotionally, but there’s something deeper going on here. Could it be that we’re made for human companionship and this kind of unabashed joyful community is what we all long for?

(HT: Randy Alcorn)


Jan 23 2011

8 Ways to Ruin Your Accountability Group

by Doug Wolter

Jonathan Dodson:

  1. Make your accountability partner drop ten bucks in the jar for that grievous sin.
  2. Make your accountability a circle of cheap confession by which you obtain cheap peace for your troubled conscience.
  3. Ask one another moralistic questions that reinforce moral performance.
  4. Pilfer through God’s Word for an experiential buzz or life connection.
  5. Go public with your respectable sins while cherishing your secret sins.
  6. Know your partner’s sin better than you know your own.
  7. Passively stand by as your sin slowly puts you to death.
  8. Make accountability, not Jesus, central to your group.

Check out Jonathan Dodson’s chapter “Gospel-Centered Accountability” in the new eBook from Covenant Eyes, Internet Pornography: A Leaders Handbook.


Jan 17 2011

The Church as the Hermeneutic of the Gospel

by Doug Wolter


Jan 16 2011

I’m Sorry, Will You Please Forgive Me?

by Doug Wolter

Zach Nielsen helps us examine our pride and willingness to live in community by asking how often we say these words, “I’m sorry, will you please forgive me?” This is a good gospel check-up!


Jan 12 2011

Community that Pushes Us Out of Our Comfort Zone

by Doug Wolter

When we picture community in the church we usually think about sitting in a safe, comfortable home with our small group laughing and hanging out together.  And that’s a good thing.  We need that! But I often wonder if real community can only happen when we get off the couch and get into the lives of people and risk something for the gospel.

Alan Hirsch calls this communitas–the next level of community where individuals come together in a common mission that may include suffering and opposition.  His thoughts are compelling:

What do you think?  Do you agree with Hirsch?  Can real community (communitas) happen without moving into the lives of people outside the church?


Jan 4 2011

What is Christian Accountability?

by Doug Wolter

Dr. Mike Emlet explains how Christian accountability is more than just helping each other refrain from sin, but in a much broader, and more biblical sense, living the one-another’s of Scripture together and thereby pointing one another to Jesus.


Dec 6 2010

Tool for Assessing Gospel Community

by Doug Wolter

Tim Chester provides an excellent tool to assess your church or “gospel community” under these 5 headings: God, Love, Word, Grace, and Mission.


Oct 19 2010

Why We Need Good Friends

by Doug Wolter

James K.A. Smith:

…in the past couple years I’ve become convinced that perhaps nothing is so important for your walk with the Lord as good friends. I think God gives us good friends as sacraments—means of grace given to us as indices of God’s presence and conduits for our sanctification. While “there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother (Prov. 18:24), that same Friend send us friends to help make his presence tangible and concrete. Nothing continues the incarnation like Christian friendship.

(HT: JT)


Oct 19 2010

Take Time to Hear One Another’s Stories

by Doug Wolter

Tim Chester, from his excellent book, You Can Change:

Every Sunday in our church we give people the opportunity to talk about what God has been doing in their lives during the past week: answers to prayer, comfort from God’s Word, opportunities for evangelism, help in temptation.  In so doing, we reinforce our belief in a God who is alive and active among us.

I think Chester has hit on something huge here.  We need to take time to hear each others’ stories so we can grow in grace together.  As Scripture says, we grasp the love of Christ “together with all the saints” (Eph. 3:18).


Oct 13 2010

How Singing Helps Life Together

by Doug Wolter

Guest post by: Eric Schumacher

At Reformed Praise, David Ward is half-way through a series of posts on “What the Bible Has to Say About Singing” from Colossians 3:16.

In his third post, David highlights the fact that “Singing is a COMMUNITY Activity.” He writes:

As we sing to one another, encouraging our brothers and sisters in Christ with the precious truths of God’s works and ways, we bring glory to God. He has designed singing as a wonderful way for those who are strong in the gospel to encourage those who are weak as they give witness with their lips and body to the reality and power of what they are singing about. Even as a song leader, I have had many mornings where I was inwardly struggling to believe and appropriate the gospel. God often uses the sound and the posture of the congregation to help get my attention off of myself and my individual spiritual walk and be encouraged at His work amongst our entire congregation.

Read the rest here.